Author: Riya

I belief that belief and practice becomes our potential, and with this thought I want to live a life and not just pass it off in vain!

LIFE FULL OF UNPREDICTABLE SURPRISES EVERYDAY

Life is tough to understand sometimes, time to time it seems to be unpredictable, we can recognize this when our graphs boost up without much of efforts, or decline even after a lot of efforts, with crux of unstableness, as life doesn’t give us the same day everyday. Of course we must know, it’s not important that we have plans always and neither it is always possible that our life is according to our plans. We never know, what exactly our destiny has planned for us, how! life is going to teach us several lessons or, what next is going to happen to us or with us. Life is sheerly a mix of everything, love and hate, happiness and anger, relaxation and anxiety, fun and boredom, and these emotions are a part of life, because without having one we may never realise the opposite one, when it tends to happen to us, we always hear random people saying, sun rises everyday and a bad night will turn into a good day, and hereby by thinking a little hard we may realize if that bad day never existed, we won’t have ever been able to realize there is something as good day as well, thereby we get to know the importance of that immortal, sorrowful and unpleasant bad day, which helps us recognize the bright and dazzling good day which is also immortal though. We must know that what a person has achieved today or what a person has today regardless of the fact that it is bad or good for us, it is never stable. Stages of life with respect to unstableness amongst it’s three basic entities, demonstrated below via the penned down poem,

“A budding young mortal,
To blossom hastily,
Has it’s flourished vitality,
With lots of time wrapped in petals,
But, no penny currently…

A blossomed middle-aged mortal,
To wither refulgently,
Has it’s functioning vitality,
With lots of pennies swinging in sepals,
But, no time currently…

A withering venerable mortal,
To be reminisced perpetually,
Has it’s unbound pennies,
With lots of time hanging in bending stem,
But, no vitality currently…”

This tells how and why life is called unstable, as we never have anything for forever.

Now and then, we are so lost in our expectations that we are unable to realise the present, as most of the people amongst us are always engaged in a race amongst selves to have a better life, and ignore the fact that maybe a meager person, is actually wishing to live a life we do, with all the basic necessities and eliminating that realisation we are busy having a futile dream, of living a life that the richest person live accomplished with diamonds pierced in platinum, unaware of the fact that maybe, that person is searching for the happiness in his life, which surely has diminished even after having all sorts of luxuries and necessities executed, as a cause of achievement’s side effect, as we know if we need something we have to flush off the thing which becomes it’s barrier in our lives, and to achieve a sumptuous life, that person would have been required to leave behind a plenty of explored feats in previous life and every human carries a different set of lost parts, but, here we ignore that, that we do have what the richest person want, but ignoring it and not grabbing the essence just because we’re lost in our bogus fantasy and busy with the race with our own selves to have or become something better without embracing today. It is important, very important to think of future but, more than that, it is extremely important to be in present because, it is happening to us right now so we need to live it and not save grudges for future and extensively important is to always remember the good memories of life and the lessons too because if we don’t, life being a fabulous teacher will teach us the lessons again! It’s better to know the value of that chapter and pay attention whole heartedly because there is no point relearning a topic, if we can learn it right now, it is also crucial to always remember to give endearment to the people who are always supportive and are standing as stick to handle us, when we shiver, because even their lives aren’t stable and predictable and anything is possible.

Veracious Egalitarianism

The time has come when it has become essential to implify feminism, yes the discrimination yet is rising. With eyes open we shall be able to see clearly that, gender equality has taken an all new aspect inwards itself.
Now let’s just have small talk on feminism, the urge to develop the concept of feminism for the very first time in facet of world, took birth in the 19th and early 20th centuries, when there was an eye on booming legal inequalities, majorly putting light on women’s suffrage, the next period also known as the second wave, 1960s to 1980s was collectively firing the matters as cultural inequalities with respect to women, gender role encompassing a long list of social behaviour and attitudes, generally attributed on the base of persons perceived biological identification or sex and what exactly is signified as the role of women in the society.
Subsequent to that is the third wave feminism, 1900s to 2000s and this refers to the diversifying strains of feminist activity also notified as a continuation to the second wave and retaliation to the recognised failures. After all the continuous wrestle, it was a pleasure to achieve many of the legal achievements but it provided a portal with ongoing entry to the struggles for imposing, fixing and laying the legal achievements within the society.
Little did we know, we were continuously getting busy in mending the society in a way where we were putting a little extra weight towards women and not towards the abstraction of equality.

How? Let us see, a women always have had to move forward and ahead of all, showing they are no level down then men out there, then when in this story, in addition to proving selves we started pulling other sex down.
This domain of equality is very vast but yet taking it on some other path and calling it equality isn’t correct because, this wasn’t the aim anyhow. Ignoring the fact that we are ignoring the male community, that they may feel sorrow or experience inequality has become a daily routine for us. When a girl was being told to have etiquettes of what to do and what not to do, a boy was also told not to cry and learn not to express himself, and from a very little age was made well aware of the fact that he had to take care of his family and earn money when he grows, when a girl was told to take care of the household work and she was asked not to go to the office to work, her wish was grounded, but at the same point a boy was also told to go to an office and not to do any house chores when he wished for the same, he was told it is not a portion of his meal, and there he was also grounded. Whether or whether not, we sheerly may have learned about these facts at some or the other point but we did nothing but ignored it for one side.
With shade to the excess weightage towards women, some of the many women, took their rights for granted and even tend to misuse there extra mass. A number of instances in the previous years have been recorded and have come in LimeLight where, women consolidated men into erroneous situations and circumstances via irrelevant blames, just to carm their personal grudges and we can’t just keep it aside. We have also heard how women were pulled down when, she achieved something and many times not given privilege for what she had done, and she wasn’t supported for her dreams a lot of times, and many even dealt with miserable moments and many were made to put a full stop to their lives as well in many of the cases. Wherein, the boy has also faced a lot of inequalities, as mentioned above, those we always ignored.

Conclusively, it has been several years that we are stuck in an era where the discrimination is going on and on, on the basis of caste, religion, race, biological perceivances etcetera, if anything left yet. It really is not an abstract of equality we are following and definitely we are misleading the definition. We need to re-think and work on making our society equal taking an example from a lot of groups present in our society, who all have been successful in pedestaling equality accurately, irrespective of all the differences present amongst the people living in it, simplifying and flourishing feminism keeping in mind it’s righteous definition.
The motive and objective needs to be equality in quality of life which will go same for all the perspectives.

Depression and the task of entities around about!

Sometimes, people make out to be in a fiddled up situation, they fake smile, they seem to be extremely happy, and even train there eyes to tell lies, but when alone they burst into cries added to it are the tendencies to suicide’s temptation, where in the jouska in head is consistently creating negative thoughts and feelings, this is a scenario where people have been successful already, to dig a deep pit hole till the core in the ground of depression, with bare hands filled with solemn slump and measureless misery. It is difficult for a human to see when collapsed in unconscious side of his brain, with darkness all around and the opening of the cave far away, though it has little source of light blossoming in but yet shovering away with each petty step of the human towards the opening. And sheerly the lapse of tries passes and the person just gets tired, after a number of tries, and more it becomes difficult because the darkness tend to grasp him more beneath within itself, then all what he needs is a hand of hope to grab him outside, wouldn’t being that entity to someone be a deed of self cherishing moment. So be one to all whom you love and know whenever your intuition says you to do so, listen to your gut, you never know maybe, you can do or could have been doing or have done wonders in someone’s life with trivial talks injected with luminosity of fun, love and humour. These people just need a hand to hold, shoulder to cry off their wickeds, a person to share, but can’t find one because it’s too late and the darkness isn’t allowing even a bit to do so. Sharing matters kicking your head over and over, is extensively righteous for you cause it may fall some rays of sunlight on the vampire that is, anxiety which may book a giant show in future, show some generosity to yourself and here comes that self love and self care are the two most crucial affairs of life. Thereby mental health, is a very serious issue and needs more and more attention than it is getting. Being sensitive, compassionate ,gentle and consistently reaching out to those struggling out there in their hard times becomes primarily very important.